By Coach Tim Mangrum
What good is the freedom of speech if you don’t use it effectively? For most, barriers don’t include a lack of important messages, but rather they get nervous, ramble, or come across differently than desired. The good news is that speaking (whether to one or many) is a learned skill. The bad news is that ineffective skills can be learned as easily as effective ones. Everyone’s suffered through a bad sales pitch, sleepy sermon, boring lecture, or pointless conversation.
Most agree that speaking is one of the most important skills, yet is one they spend the least time purposefully developing! The better people communicate, the more influence they have. Since power flows to the most influential, they generally control — in business, in the political arena, in life! Speech alone is not enough, but it is more powerful than the sword because it influences the side for which a sword fights.
Speaking effectively requires not just the learning of skills, but consistent practice to keep them sharp. Classes and seminars, though beneficial, are not enough. The regular giving and receiving of trained and candid speeches and evaluations from peers is invaluable. That’s why there’s no substitute for the benefits obtained from a Toastmasters Club.
Many top speakers credit much of their success to Toastmasters. Folks from all stations and stages of life find that learning to speak, listen and think on-their-feet helps every aspect of their lives. That’s why one club founded in the 1920’s has grown to tens of thousands of groups today. Unlike classes or seminars, the format is peer-based, on-going and, though well structured, also is flexible and fun. Participants progress at their own paces in a safe and supportive learning environment.
The new Conservative Toastmasters Club of Denton adds a focus on our shared causes. Conservatives wanting to find their voices and exercise their rights to maximum effect should use this wonderful resource to advance themselves and our vital mission. The cost averages $7 per month. Like-minded guests may visit for free and either participate or just observe without pressure. The Club meets Mondays at 7 p.m. at 3321 Colorado Blvd. in Denton, which is a medical building behind Denton Regional Hospital — the building with the flag. Contact Coach Tim at 940/239-0564 or email Coach@TimMangrum.com for more information.
Tim Mangrum is a financial planner, DCRP Precinct Chair and Chair of the DCRP Welcoming committee.
