Merry Christmas
There I said it. It wasn't so hard.
How is it we have reached a point in our history and society where that simple phrase can now invoke a series of apologies and nervous glances from those that hear it?
Let's be clear here, Christmas is the day Christians celebrate the birth of Jesus. If you are not Christian what does it matter to you that Christians choose to celebrate it?
Christians certainly don't get their hackles up over Hanukah or Kwanzaa or Ramadan or any other holiday celebrated by different ethnic groups or religions so why is it, that those primarily led, by folks with no religion have placed Christmas in the crosshairs?
What is it about Christmas that causes so much anxiety as opposed to Eid al Fitr or even Easter for that matter?
I am not what most people would consider a devout Christian, meaning I don't go to church every Sunday. That is by choice, but I still consider myself Christian.
I take no offense at the various Jewish holidays, and in fact respect them actually and have tried to learn about them.
Until 6 or 7 years ago I doubt many in America knew what Ramadan or the hajj was, but there are no concerted efforts to diminish these days or make a spectacle out of citing any sort of infringement of rights at the mention of them. In fact in the case of Islam the exact opposite may be in effect. We have gone to the other extreme to make people aware of them, while cloaking it in the mask of being multi-cultural, but in reality it is out of fear. Christians do not threaten violence for besmirching their religious icons like Muslims will.
So why has it become fashionable, to deny Christmas exists in this country and it has become such a symbol of our pop hero culture to obstruct the recognition of Christmas and in fact one can be elevated to hero status for getting any acknowledgement of Christmas banned in the public eye?
This year it has reached real heights of silliness by the Governor of Washington actually entertaining the idea of a Festivus display. Festivus for those that don't know is a made up holiday created for an episode of television sitcom "Seinfeld".
The real goal in recent years in regards to all of these organizations promoting "holidays" to coincide with Christmas is very simply to attempt to have Christmas get lost in the forest of all of these other holidays.
A distinction must be made that Christmas and Hanukah, also known as Chanukah, are religious holidays, whereas things like Kwanzaa and Festivus are cultural movements.
For the history of Kwanzaa go here. Learn more about the creator of Kwanzaa in this country and his ties to the Black Panthers. Quite a contradiction huh? By the way if you ask anybody from the African continent about Kwanzaa expect to get a blank stare for your curiosity.
So to my Christian friends and non Christian friends I challenge you to take pride in the Christmas season, remembering what the day represents. Do not be afraid to express your recognition of it. If one of your Jewish friends wishes you a Happy Hanukah in return for a greeting of Merry Christmas be sure to return the sentiment.
Christmas can not be taken away from you, it can only be given away by you. If you allow others to define how you express your recognition of what this season is about, you are in effect giving it away.
Merry Christmas.